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  The rest of the country either favors a ban (34%) or isn’t sure (20%). The survey of 1,585 U.S. adults, conducted during the first week of Black History Month, offers a striking reminder that America is increasingly at odds over what Black history even means — and who should learn what, when. The issue has become predictably polarized in the wake of DeSantis’s recent efforts to block an AP draft framework that he repeatedly likened to “indoctrination.” “This course on Black history, what’s one of the lessons about? Queer theory,” DeSantis said last month. “Now who would say that an important part of Black history is queer theory? That is somebody pushing an agenda.”

  I was a goody-goody with a temper. He was vulnerable and communicative.  That scrambled my brain, because I was like, 'I'm the one who does things right, OK? 'And he was like, 'But you don't, because you're scared to say what you really feel.' It was hard for me to say when something scared me. I realized that when I talked more about my fears, I gained more respect from not just my husband but everyone in my life," she said. She also explained that the two don't always see eye to eye, but rather than a point of contention, their disagreements have become one of the most "fun" aspects of their partnership. "We disagree about 99% of the things on earth, which is just fun and interesting. I often feel under qualified, whether for an acting scene or a parenting moment. When I feel wonky about my day, I tell my husband, 'I like doing this, but I don't really know what I'm doing.' And he goes, 'All you need to do is ...